LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH (1) by Oufemi Yetunde LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH (1) by Oufemi Yetunde
What keeps relationship going is beyond “I Love You” let’s find out others Often times, when you say you are interested in a particular... LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH (1) by Oufemi Yetunde

What keeps relationship going is beyond “I Love You” let’s find out others

Often times, when you say you are interested in a particular person, the question you get to be asked is “do you love her/him?”

No one gets to tell you that it takes more than love to sustain a relationship. There come some situations where the loves you have for each other wax thin. Some situations drain the affection in a relationship. The thing that keeps you going at these points in time has nothing to do with love.

Here is a list of things that should be present in a relationship

Tolerance: you must be able to tolerate your partner.  Your partner does not have the same upbringing, qualities, exposure as well as other things as you do. Your partner is not perfect as the picture you paint. Your ability to tolerate their flaws and shortcomings helps to sustain the relationship a long way.

Friendship: it is often advised that you should be your partners’ friend.  Create an environment when they can tell you anything bothering them. You should be a solace to your partner. Ensure you can freely laugh, play and gist with your partner. Don’t be a stranger to your partner.

To be continued; Watch this space

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