Most of these men do not begin this attitude after they got married, it all started at their tender age, some of them are victims of poor parental care just as some of us are, and what you see them doing is a revenge mission. Lack of wisdom causes that though
Some have very good upbringing but fail to adhere to adequate and correct home training while under parental guide. The excesses that couldn’t be curb then is showing forth now
Some of these lesser than men fathers do not learn responsibility in their youthful age, they are selfish, arrogant, care less about anyone else, seek to fulfill their interests at the expense of others
Read “My Father Is A Boy Part (1)“
They run away from leadership positions, they don’t like to influence people with what they have, they are timid and shy to help others
They have knowledge but lack wisdom, they see others as irrelevant, and they are classy and never seek for advice not to talk of taking corrections
They jump from one bed to another with different ladies because they are rich and handsome; lies filled their mind; that gave them an evil conscience
These men are not faithful as a youth, they are not responsible even to their class mates, and they don’t even take responsibility for their actions
They promise to change when they get married, have children and start working but the reverse is the case, in fact the situation is worse than what they bargain for
Hence, as a youth reading this article, examine your life now, make amends where necessary because the devil you fail to deal with now will come back to haunt you and can finish you if care is not taken
You must start practicing the father you will like to be now, stick to one lady and enjoy your relationship, be responsible for your actions, take responsibility for your friends and learn the art of giving
For the victims of fathers that’s nothing but a boy, do not lose hope, don’t involve yourself in activities that can jeopardize your future, stand firm and keep hope alive, I tell you; you will win!!!
Say this with me;; I DO NOT HAVE A FATHER, BUT, I WILL BE A FATHER!!!