There are guys who are naturally nice and caring- if you are close to me; I am a perfect example of the Mr. Nice. They can give all of their time to attend to the needs of their female friends, they don’t only attend to their needs, they even go to the point of giving special sweet and romantic names to them.
They take them out on special dates, buy them clothing materials – some even buy under wears I’m not sure if I’m this nice anyways. The guy can even flaunt them before his friends. The relationship will be so close that; everyone will think that something is going on between them.
Ladies tend to rely on the popular opinion and assume they are already into romantic relationship; they get jealous if they see another lady around such guy. They will start claiming ownership and tell everyone that; they are in love with such guy when the guy is yet to ask for their hand in a romantic relationship. Some ladies live with this assumption and do away with other suitors that approach them, some even break up their existing relationship because they felt the “NICE GUY” is most accurate for them.
Dear ladies, it will be proper for you to stop assuming for guys, don’t think because he’s caring it’s an automatic conversion to spouse, make sure you define every relationship, if you are not clear with his action or motive, do well to ask questions, don’t just assume and think he will take you to Mama.
Some guys are naturally nice; they do all that without a biased mind. You are nothing to them beyond a sister; they don’t even expect any favour in return. Don’t take it beyond what he’s committed to. He gives you attention, show you love but has not for once profess his love to you, keep it cool, stay calm, confirm your status before turning yourself to broadcasting corporation.